Happy Thanksgiving to all!! I hope you are in a safe and comfortable place, enjoying good food and good company.
Like just about everything else in my new life, the holiday season this year will be completely different for me. Typically, I cook Thanksgiving dinner at home with the help of my son Kyle, and our small family gathers, sometimes including a local friend or two.
This year, my family is either gone or scattered, my only home is my small RV with no oven, and I’m in an unfamiliar place. I’m not feeling sorry for myself – just stating the facts. It’s an adjustment.
It is, of course, a time to reflect and give thanks. Sometimes it feels like it’s easier or even more natural to focus on the negatives in life, and all the complaints we might have. One of the many wonderful aspects of the Thanksgiving holiday is that it reminds us to be thankful and focus on the things we do have, rather than the things we don’t have.
So I’m very grateful to my ex-in-laws, Eric’s mother and sister, for welcoming me into their home in Cape Canaveral, Florida for Thanksgiving. I’m staying at a campground which is directly on the beach, and a short walk to the condominium complex where they live. It’s wonderful to be with extended family, and I look forward to enjoying our turkey dinner together later this afternoon.
OK, here’s the best part. Early this morning, I walked a short way from my RV to the beach:
I walked barefoot, in shorts and a T-shirt, thoroughly enjoying the smell of the ocean, and the feel of the sand. I’m thankful for the beach. Sometimes this adjustment thing is pretty easy to do!!
But seriously, I’m so thankful on multiple levels this year.
- I’m thankful for my amazing children, who both live in Seattle, I’m thankful for their health, I’m thankful for their love for me, and I’m thankful that they both grew up to be bright, caring and thoughtful individuals.
- I don’t know why I’ve outlived the rest of my nuclear family, but I’m thankful for every day that I’m healthy and able to enjoy life.
- I’m thankful for my ex-husband and close friend, Eric, and so grateful to him for all he has done for me this year.
- I’m thankful that I sold my house, and I’m extremely thankful that I was able to retire from my job.
- I’m thankful that I was able to buy the RV which has been my home, and I’m thankful that I succeeded in learning to operate it and live in it.
- I’m thankful for my passion for genealogy, because it’s one of the many things which make me excited to get out of bed every morning and start my day.
- I’m thankful for my closest friends Carol, Denise and Cindy, and for my cousin Betsy, all of whom I love deeply.
- I’m thankful for the amazing folks running the Bucks County Genealogical Society, and especially for Mary Butash, who happily took the baton from me and allowed me the freedom to move on. They are all second to none.
I feel like I could go on and on! I am truly blessed.
Happy Thanksgiving, and all the best for the holiday season! Enjoy!!